Be sure to check out individual websites before heading out to these locations. Party location or time can change depending on many factors. Call ahead to get ahead.
Guided Stroke Clinic
One Taste San Francisco
1074 Folsom Street
6:15-7:25pm
Guided Srtoke Clinic
We will lead a clinic for men and women who are interested in deepening their Orgasmic Meditation practice. This will include instructions and facilitation of two Om-ing sessions for those who have completed a course that included stroking instruction. This is an excellent opportunity to take what you learned in the course(s) to the next level.If you are coming as an individual, please reserve in advance by calling 415-503-1100 so we can match you with a partner. Each Wednesday.
Dress Up I Love It
I Love It Girl
45979 Warm Springs Boulevard #7, Fremont
7 - 11pm
Price: $15 donation, $10 with food or drink
Dress Up I Love It
Join them for the fun of dress-up night. Enjoy a great social environment, snacks and a fantastic selection of clothing for the woman in you! Transgender girls, cross-dressers and first-timers are all welcome. Get fashion tips, try on tons of beautiful clothes and socialize with the girls. They have a 5,000 square foot closet with thousands and thousands of outfits, and you are encouraged to play. It's a great time. They will love to see you there! By invitation only so check their website. Every Wednesday night.
Bondage-a-Go-Go
Glas Kat
520 4th St @ Bryant
9pm
Bondage-a-Go-Go
BAGG has been a sanctuary for the tattooed, pierced, scarified and misanthropic since 1993 -- a haven to those who wish for a dance on the dark side of life. Interactive BDSM, cocktails, dancing and unspeakable forms of socialization are the driving force behind this event, the City's premiere underground dance party. Every Wednesday night.
Club Tyranny
The Lucky 13 Bar
4113 W. Swift Ave
Fresno, California
Club Tyranny
Holding down the dark side of the Central Valley underground, Club Tyranny features garage trash, psychobilly, industrial, gothic, punk and EBM, held every 1st and 3rd Wednesday at The Lucky 13 in Fresno.
SPUNK!
Eros
2051 Market Street at Church
4pm-Midnight
Price: $10 membership, $13 regular entry, $10 before 7:00pm
http://www.erossf.com
A world of pleasure…San Francisco's acclaimed safe sex club for gay/bisexual men! Bringing together men of all ages, colors, shapes and sizes. Spunk! is held every Thursday taking pride in creating a hot yet casual environment for your safe play! Comfortable, clean, luxurious, great music, and friendly hot guys. Join their S.F. regulars and visitors from all over the world in this extraordinary club for gay and bisexual men. Every Thursday night.
Club Blackmail
198 Church St @ Market
Price: Free before 10, $3 after
http://www.blackmailproductions.com
San Francisco's only coldwave industrial club. Club Blackmail recently celebrated its one year anniversary and is going strong. The usual line-up of wonderful DJs includes matt.od, verablue, and netik (Meat). $1 drink specials! 21 and over only, please. Every first Thursday.
Power Exchange
74 Otis Street
9pm-6am
Price: Friday, men $35-75, couples $20, women & transgender free
http://www.powerexchange.com
America's Naughtiest Night Club! The premier play space for all men, women, trans, & couples. The Power Exchange is open for mixed company every Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday night from 9pm-6am. This is the hottest safe-sex location in the city, open every weekend for your cruising pleasure. We offer, 30,000 sq ft of theme rooms, video, dance and lounge space. See website for details on admission, rules and special events.
Lucky Pierre
The Stud
399 9th Street @ Harrison
10pm-4am
Price: $5
http://www.myspace.com/clubluckypierre
Lucky Pierre's homoelectric disco features DJ Donimo (Shadowplay, Substance) and DJ Party Ben (Bootie, LIVE 105). Hosted by Coco Canal, Miss Trannyshack 2005. Featuring hot go go boys. First Friday of every month.
Club Fate
The Blue Lagoon
923 Pacific Avenue
Santa Cruz, California
Price: $5
http://www.clubfate.net
"Industrial, Gothic, Erotic Anthems" at the Blue Lagoon in downtown Santa Cruz. Features DJs Gobo, Stiletto, err0r, Meester, and Unit 77. Atmosphere provided by aphotic productions. Every first Friday.
Trauma
2600 Watt Avenue
Sacramento, California
Door at 9pm
Price: $5
http://www.myspace.com/sac_trauma
TRAUMA is a Gothic Industrial and EBM dance party that started in the fall of 2004 at the venue most in the Sacramento scene know as the old Amazon. Originally it was intended as a one night event but due to the enthusiastic response and numerous inquries by those who attended, the project mutated into a series of club nights held every other month for the past year. After the second event the club was moved to the Country Club Event Center where it is currently still held. TRAUMA began and continues thanks to the cooperative efforts of many in our Sacramento scene who care about seeing it thrive and musically evolve for the better. The music of the night covers just about every sub-genre of the scene in an effort to offer something for everyone who visits. And while our DJs bring the latest and best in darker dance music, they also continue to remember the great bands that came before who made our scene what it is today. 18 and over only, please. Every Friday night.
Club Nemesis
King of Clubs
893 Leong Drive
Mountain View, California
Door at 9pm
Price: Free before 10pm, $5 after
http://www.myspace.com/clubnemesis
Club Nemesis: Industrial, Electro, Futurepop, and Power Noise. The South Bay's Industrial Club and the rebirth of the industrial DANCE club. Resident DJs: :lynx:, Neshamah, Scar(lette), Scio, Silvercell, Void. 21+ with ID. Every Friday night.
Playboy
The Stud
399 9th Street @ Harrison
10pm-4am
Price: $5 before 11:30, $8 after
http://www.juanitamore.com
The successful bi-monthly club is now bringing all of its style every week to the Legendary Stud. Created by Ryan Robles and Juanita MORE!, Playboy has thrived on its recreation of the Stud. The chandelier lit dance floor, dark backroom and candle light lounge - together have transformed this legendary venue. A set of rotating DJ's pump out the beats weekly, while the crowd of boys, girls, punks, trannies, muscle queens, skaters, & above all, fashionistas dance till morning. The Stud is famous for their reasonably priced cocktails and Playboy throws in free shots at midnight -- just for your pleasure. Every Saturday night.
Chez Badunkadunk
Upstairs Lounge
Cat Club
1190 Folsom at 8th
9:30pm - 3am
http://www.lustyladyparty.com
Every 1st & 3rd Saturday, enjoy SF's best alternative strip club + burlyQ. Join the Infamous Lusty Ladies, The Goth-Erotic Black Widows, Hostess Princess Pandora, MC: Fudgie Frottage, DJ's: D.I.E. and an assortment of BurlyQ Hotties for a wild evening of pole dancing, lap dancing, fan dancing, 2 for 1 dance specials and more at this tastefully steamy upstairs lounge. 21& up. July 21st features burlyQ artiste, Delilah from the UK's MOB (Ministry of Burlesque); Aug. 4 features burlyQ troupe The Damnettes. Past burlesque performers include: The Indra, Bombshell Betty, Isis Starr, Alotta Boutte', Kellita (hot pink feathers), Sparkle Diamond (from L.A.), Bottoms Up Burlesque, Lily LeRouge and Rose Pistola.
Erotic Open Mic Night
One Taste San Francisco
1074 Folsom Street
7:45pm
http://www.onetastesf.com
Love erotica? Turned on by sharing your sensual escapades? Then come share you turn on with the world at this Erotic Open Mic Night. First & third Monday of the month. Visit website for more info. 1st & 3rd Monday of the month.
The Box
The Blue Lagoon
923 Pacific Avenue
Santa Cruz, California
Price: $3 (free before 10pm)
Goth/Industrial dance at the Blue Lagoon in Downtown Santa Cruz, every Monday night.
Death Guild
Glas Kat
520 4th Street at Bryant
9:30pm-2:30am
Price: $3 before 10pm, $5 after
http://www.deathguild.com
Local DJ's Melting Girl, Decay, Joe Radio and Merrick play a range of industrial, alternative '80s, darkwave dance and gothic in the main room and upstairs. If the swirling lights and the elegantly darkly dressed dancers make you a feel a bit woozy, drift gracefully and pensively to the bar where you will find offerings of wine, beer, and mixed drinks for $5 and up. Every Monday night.
Cheap Meat
Mack
1285 Folsom Street
6pm-6am
Price: $8
http://www.mackfolsomprison.com
It's eight-buck fuck night every Tuesday at Mack. They have slings, glory holes, a dry sauna, showers, internet lounge, smoking room, watersports area, big TVs with porn and, of course, lots of hot men. One of San Francisco's infamous destinations, Mack is sure to please guys who are looking for hot, sleazy action. Every Tuesday night.
Trannyshack
The Stud
399 9th Street at Harrison
10pm-3am, show at midnight
Price: $7
http:/www.heklina.com
Trannyshack is part dance club, part burlesque, and altogether a totally fabulous time. The crowd (and we mean "crowd," as it tends to get packed) is a mix of transsexuals, transsexual admirers and people who show up just to have a blast. The music is equally eclectic and couldn't possibly be pinned down to one genre. Best of all, at midnight when the Muppet Show theme plays ("It's time to put on makeup, it's time to light the lights..."), it's show time! The vaudeville-style quips begin to fly, in between short drag show acts which can range from Cher to Madonna. Every Tuesday night.
That is all Folks!